Harmony In Communications (1) Role of the Family as a Source of Honor

Harmony In Communications (1)

Role of the Family as a Source of Honor

First Principle: "If you talk with a partner then you will get a response’.
basically everyone wants to be considered everyone happy, loved and appreciated, so do not you ever talk "TO" partner ..!

What you should do is talk 'WITH' couples so that couples with the same feel invited to discuss expectations , need and anxiety.

Talking 'TO' is usually more of a report and a one-way, do not even need a response. 'Is whether you convey information to superiors, .... Is .... Have answered .... He did not say anything ".


Let the pair talked and listen whole heartedly so that you know what I want to say. Sometimes we are too anxious to quickly demonstrate self-righteous, so to not hear the truth proclaimed by our mates.

"Remember that a spouse who is currently speaking with you is a person who used to miss you and proud to everyone. Than speak as you commit yourself to live until the death WITH couples". Kank Hari

Principle Two: Your Behavior is a mirror for the couple "

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Each pair will usually try to follow where the partner's mo "Because of you is a mirror for the couple. To be a shadow in the mirror looks beautiful with beautiful dress, and if there is something lacking in self-repair immediately. Because our job is to fix shortcomings in front of the mirror partner for a beautiful image. "Kank Hari

Each pair will usually try to follow where the partner's moves because otherwise it would not because otherwise it would not be leaved it. If the wife followed her husband moved home ... not when the couple husband and wife promoted automatically go up 'degree'.

Likewise, in the act and communicate with your partner,


If you can not kink to the pair do not expect your partner can understand you are talking about as important and no matter how well you are talking about.


'If you talk to rough and hard and do not respect your partner, do not expect the couple to act gently and appreciate you. "


While partner been properly carry out its obligations do not look for reasons to make him sad and Unhappiness .To Say If be you thank you and happy for having served well. Thus the couple feel he was worth.

Third Principle: No one is a victim in a family.



None of the victims in a family relationship. Remind each spouse entitled to react to the treatment of husband / wife. Decide when and how you react to the behavior of couples who don’t you like it ‘.Kank Hari


look at yourself 'counter-attack you, it true to repair and put your on the real issue, just reply to the attack
Or even a plan of destruction. and want to hurt your partner's feelings. .

There was no improvement to repeat the same mistake this applies also to reward the behavior you feel in communication .if spouse is your reaction to the attack then immediately changed. Go to effort had to apologize when wrong and seek to be ready to listen to explanations and complaints without interrupting ..



"Pairing is creating a balance of harmony of life!"